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    Border Breaker is devoted to methods of increasing confidence, developing attraction, rapport, and connection with others, creating and mainting relationships, breaking communication barriers, increasing all communication skills, and promoting knowledge and skills that will help you interact more confidently with the world and have more fun doing it. Why the name "border breaker"? because rules and borders are merely social constructs meant to be broken. Just because there is a crosscultural habit to avoid talking to strangers, doesn't mean that always needs to be the case, we have an opportunity to break communication barriers and form new social norms within our communities by inspiring every person we meet.

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5 Rules to Successful Sexual Escalation

5 Rules to Successful Sexual Escalation

March 31st, 2012 at 11:03 pm
5 rules to successful sexual escalation 1. Escalation isn’t just physical escalation; it’s an emotional escalation of the bond between two people.  The more...

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How to Stop Being a Spectator and Be Confident in Your Actions

How to Stop Being a Spectator and Be Confident in Your Actions

January 22nd, 2012 at 08:01 am
We Live in a Spectator Culture. People all over this unfortunate world are constantly reinforcing the mundane habit of just observing and not participating in the world around...

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What is a Communication Barrier?

What is a Communication Barrier?

January 21st, 2012 at 07:01 am
A Communication Barrier is a habit or obstacle that prevents effective communication. No matter how skilled  and experienced you are at at communicating, you may come accross...

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5 Rules to Successful Sexual Escalation

5 rules to successful sexual escalation 1. Escalation isn’t just physical escalation; it’s an emotional escalation of the bond between two people.  The more you increase a woman’s emotional interest in you, the more physical escalation will be acceptable. 2. Escalation is based on connection and attraction. Build her attraction for you while simultaneously building [...]

How to Stop Being a Spectator and Be Confident in Your Actions

We Live in a Spectator Culture. People all over this unfortunate world are constantly reinforcing the mundane habit of just observing and not participating in the world around them. And when people used to this spectator mentality take the red pill and begin the process of becoming a participator, they can be both paralyzed by [...]

10 tips to Improve your Sexual Attractiveness

You should never be afraid to express your sexual desires. The most effective way to get girls attracted to you sexually is to be boldly confident enough to express your sexuality. 1. Accept the reality of our biological nature. Sex is normal and natural. Don’t act like it’s a topic to avoid. 2. Inspire your [...]

What is a Communication Barrier?

A Communication Barrier is a habit or obstacle that prevents effective communication. No matter how skilled  and experienced you are at at communicating, you may come accross verbal communication barriers, cultural communication barriers, organizational communication barriers, workplace communication barriers, interpersonal communication barriers, and even physcial barriers to communication. So many types of barriers. Listening Barriers to [...]

How to Make a Girl Like You More

What do you really think about yourself? Are you proud of who you are and the image you project to the world? Are you friendly, and living a life full of success or are you full of negativity and doubt? How do you really describe yourself?   You’ve probably heard that weathered cliche that to love others you [...]

How to Pick Up Girls Like Johnny Bravo

One of the biggest misconceptions Johnny Bravo may teach you is that guy’s like him don’t get laid. They DO!  His confidence in himself makes him fearless! He shows zero hesitation and doesn’t care about saying the right thing. He is living in the moment! Just go have fun, be confident, and introduce yourself into [...]

How to Get Girls Horny

  If you want to make a girl helplessly horny for you, you need to connect with her both emotionally and sexually. Sex is a natural thing we all crave, you can make any woman aroused and wet, but you also need some emotional connection. 1. qualify her Compliments don’t need to be needy attempts [...]

How to Use Commonalities to Increase Attraction

  Everyobdy knows the clichéd advice that pointing out your commonalities can build comfort and connection with people. But there are both weak and strong commonalities.  If a woman tells you she loves a certain book, it’s a weak connection to just say, “yeah I love that book too.” But if you tell her why [...]

Top 10 Things Women Find Attractive in a Man

  If a woman disqualifies you as a potential mate, it’s not necessarily because you are physically unattractive. You might be lacking other traits that will arouse her interest. I’ve seen many attractive guys rejected by women just because of simple personality flaws, or especially a lack of confidence. If you can improve your behavior [...]

4 Questions to Build a Real Connection with Your Date.

4 Questions to Build a Real Connection with Your Date. As a confident, dominant male, you should be making decisions about dates, and not only making decisions about what you will do on a date, but also decisions on what kind of connection you plan to make with a girl on date. Such as making her [...]